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The chapter that impacted me the most from David Staal’s book, Words Kids Need to Hear. Here is #4 of 7 things my kids need to hear from me.
#4…
“I’m sorry, please forgive me”
Here are my swift kicks in the behind…
- Authentic authority flows from respect, and sincere apologies foster the connectedness and trust that is necessary for it to lovingly evolve.
- Children tend to treat people the way they are treated.
- The humility we need comes from a simple truth – everyone messes up and has reasons to apologize. Even to kids. When you approach life convinced of your fallibility, a humble attitude will follow. Just don’t get arrogant about it.
- If the thought “I should apologize” comes to mind, then act on it; that’s your heart talking.
- Act sooner than later. An apology sometimes arrives too late to have full impact.
- Speak clearly and concisely. Limit your words. Work hard to resist the urge to offer excuses and preserve the power of the moment.
- Disappointment with mom or dad is tough for a kid to handle.
- Parents need to give children opportunities to develop an ability to freely forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love.
I needed a breather after that chapter.
