Using the Kid for Bait

Posted on 31 March 2009 by Gina

Last week I posted about hooks in ministry.  Read it here to catch up.

Hooks are important in ministry b/c most people know what they want, but don’t know what they need.  I need a good hook to gain parents’ attention in order to expand their vision for their family.  The best hook in my tackle box for a young family is Child Dedications.

Child Dedications is a natural draw because:

  • It’s the ‘shiny’ moment where the parents showcase their child/family.
  • Parents want to express their sincere intent to do what is best for their child.
  • Parents are hungry for direction.

How do we know parents are hungry?

  • They’ll pay $25 for the book, “What to Expect When Expecting”
  • They study the origins of names searching for the perfect one
  • They’ll tour the hospital BEFORE giving birth to their first-born

For the record… once you reach child #3… things change a little:

  • That $25 book becomes a booster seat for the toddler
  • Your kindergartner chooses the name based upon his favorite movie character.  And that’s how you have a child named Jack-Jack
  • The hospital tour occurs while you’re pacing the halls in the midst of labor

But I digress.  Back to my point… Parents are willing to jump through a few hoops to participate in an event like Child Dedications.  So it should be more than just an isolated event.  Child Dedications should be a  process that lead mom and dad to embrace a God-sized vision for their family.  I’ll unpack my process for Child Dedications, but I’d like to hear your thoughts first.  No lurking. What’s the most important thing you want parents to know when they walk away from your Child Dedication event?

2 Comments For This Post

  1. Donald Roche Says:

    Great stuff Gina, look forward to you sharing your process. Here is some quick notes from my pre-dedication meeting I have with each family. I totally agree, THIS is the time to get parents fired up about what Deut. 6 calls them to. Meet with parents, at their home to eval, encourage, and educate where they are in their own faith, know what Deut. 6 calls us to, and get busy praying as a couple about what commitments they are ready to make as the spiritual leaders in their child's life (hit those lukewarm dads hard with this, often leads to us having lunch, just couple of dads).
    Short and long term goals for your child? What do you want to look back and celebrate? What would cause you sorrow?
    Dedication expectations? Discuss what is, what is not.
    Parents believers?
    Begin discussing NOW their plan for discipleship of their child? Tangible, strategic plans and commitments.
    Discuss partnership w/ church vs. relinquish responsibility to. Mutual expectations of?
    Relationships with believers? Establish for seeking wise counsel?
    How prioritize goals for child? Sports camp vs. Christian camp. (ready to battle?) Satan is.

  2. jabberfrog Says:

    Donald,
    I love that you visit their home. What a great connection.

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